Straight Enemy is better than a ditching friend

An important thing to always take care in life is to have friends in a careful way. There are people who stay with you to identify your pitfalls and dig your grave. Just always be double careful of choosing friends. An enemy directly attacks, you anyways wont have any belief on them so it doesnt hurt much... but if a close friend takes advantage of you and hurts you, you can emotionally hurt too which makes you feel weak. The best way to deal with these situations is to not have too much expectation from anyone