Overmuch "Parental love"

This post solely is to bring out certain points about parents which is love-for-children in overdose which leads to disappointed-thoughts in children.
when parents treat you the same way as you were treated at 5 years of age at the time when you are already crossing 20 years of age , the pain is understood only by you. When parents don't allow you to think and decide, but take decisions and only provide you the solution , you are punished for an uncommitted crime. You only learn to adjust and compromise for their likings. When will they ever understand that we too have to be given a chance to think and take decisions? The mistake is not with parents ... they are only trying to satisfy their child, they only want their child not to face all the difficulties they faced , but does that make the children happy???
A millionaire might want his son to travel in a car but his son might want to go around in a cycle . These are long existing problems which don't picture out to the society. All these curb your way to adult thinking. Result is that you are tagged as an unmature person by your mates!
The only solution to this problem lies in the hands of parents who need to modify the treatment to their children differently in different stages of life.